Applying this, I see everyday how girls try to make themselves appear to up to the standards that have been created by media. The problem with this is that girls change the way that beauty should perceived. I personally think that beauty can be seen within anyone and that no one person or group can define what beauty is. There is a problem with this because in today's society, there are groups that make girls think that beauty means doing one thing or another. It could be wearing certain clothing, or having their body being a certain shape. Not everyone can fit the same body type as the way that media makes girls think is true beauty. The media controls the way girls think, which I think is wrong. There is too much pressure on girls to be this certain way that they look past how they can look beautiful in their own way. It's like a crime to steal a women's beauty with a superficial appearance of beauty.
Connecting to this is how men objectify women. They don't care about the deeper feelings that women have and how they can be more than their surface level. This goes hand and hand with how girls make themselves look a certain because that's what has been told to them to be beautiful. Men see women as objects and that their main purpose is to make babies. There is an under representation of women in all fields in society because men control the society.
I have seen this objectification in my life and saw it recently in school. At a sports presentation, there were boys who were heckling one of the speakers who was explaining that when someone listens to rap, it causes them to objectify women. Then one of the boys yelled that women are objects, and I immediately realized how close to me that this reality of objectification is. Everywhere, boys are growing up and thinking that they can see girls as objects because they hear this message from music. Its really sad to know that this thought is accepted by people, but I have seen how real it is.
A picture of Victoria Secret models, one example of how media shapes how women and girls should look.



